So You’re Thinking About Homeschooling: Where to Start

The First Steps

So you’re thinking about homeschool? It is a big decision, and if you’re just starting to think about it, you’re not alone. Many parents consider homeschooling as an option but feel unsure about how to begin or whether it’s the right choice for their family. This guide is designed to help you navigate those early thoughts, understand what homeschooling entails, and take the first steps toward making an informed decision.

Why Are You Considering Homeschooling?

The first question to ask yourself is why. Identifying your motivation will help clarify your goals and guide your decision-making process. Common reasons include:

• Concerns about public or private school environments (bullying, large class sizes, curriculum content).
• A desire for more personalized learning tailored to your child’s needs.
• A flexible schedule for family travel or other priorities.
• A wish to incorporate specific values or philosophies into your child’s education.

Write down your reasons and discuss them as a family. This clarity will help you evaluate whether homeschooling aligns with your goals.

Step 1: Learn About Homeschooling

Start by gathering information about what homeschooling involves. Some excellent ways to do this include:

Research the Basics

• What is homeschooling?
• How does it work?
• What are the benefits and challenges?

Explore Different Homeschooling Methods

Homeschooling is not one-size-fits-all. Some popular approaches include:

• Traditional: A structured curriculum resembling traditional school.
• Unschooling: A flexible, child-led approach focusing on curiosity and exploration.
• Montessori or Waldorf: Emphasizing hands-on learning and creativity. Check out our Montessori vs Waldorf article here.
• Eclectic: Combining elements of various methods to suit your child’s needs.

Read Blogs and Books

Look for personal stories and resources written by experienced homeschoolers. This can give you a realistic perspective on what to expect.

Join Online Communities

Homeschooling forums, Facebook groups, or Reddit threads are valuable spaces to ask questions and connect with families already homeschooling.

Step 2: Understand Your State’s Homeschooling Laws

Each state in the U.S. has unique requirements for homeschooling. Research the following:

• Do you need to file a notice of intent to homeschool?
• Are there record-keeping requirements?
• Are standardized tests or evaluations required?
• What subjects must you teach?

Knowing the legal side will help you understand what’s involved and whether homeschooling fits into your life.

I recommend checking out HSLDA’s website and looking at the laws for your specific state.

Step 3: Reflect on Your Family’s Needs

Homeschooling requires commitment and planning, so take a close look at your family’s dynamics:

Time

• Do you have the time to dedicate to homeschooling?
• Can your schedule accommodate teaching, planning, and extracurricular activities?

Finances

• Can your family budget for homeschooling expenses like curricula, supplies, and field trips?
• Are you prepared to adjust if homeschooling impacts your income?

Your Child’s Needs

• Does your child thrive in traditional school settings, or do they need a different approach?
• How do they feel about the idea of homeschooling?

Step 4: Test the Waters

If you’re still unsure, consider experimenting with homeschooling concepts:

Try a “Homeschool Day”

Pick a weekend or holiday to simulate a homeschool day. Plan lessons, activities, and discussions to see how your child responds.

Supplement with Homeschooling Resources

Incorporate some homeschool-style activities into your child’s routine, such as:

• Nature walks with science observations.
• Hands-on math or art projects.
• Child-led research on topics they’re curious about.

Attend a Homeschool Event

Many communities host homeschool meetups, workshops, or field trips. Attending can give you a glimpse into what homeschooling life looks like.

Step 5: Talk to Other Homeschooling Families

Reach out to local or online homeschoolers to hear their stories. Ask questions like:

• What made them decide to homeschool?
• What does their daily routine look like?
• What challenges have they faced, and how have they overcome them?

Hearing real-life experiences can help you assess whether homeschooling aligns with your family’s needs.

You could try attending a homeschool convention like those hosted by GHC to meet homeschool families.

Step 6: Evaluate Your Readiness

Homeschooling isn’t just about educating your child—it’s a lifestyle shift. Before making the leap, ask yourself:

• Am I ready to take on the responsibility of managing my child’s education?
• Am I open to adjusting plans as we learn what works?
• Do I have a support network to rely on when things get tough?

If the answers aren’t clear yet, don’t worry. The decision-making process is part of the journey.

Step 7: Plan Your Next Steps

If you’re leaning toward homeschooling, start making a plan:

• Research curricula and resources that fit your child’s learning style.
• Plan a transition period if your child is currently in public or private school.
• Begin setting up a space in your home for learning.

If you’re still undecided, give yourself more time to explore, reflect, and discuss the idea as a family.

Benefits of Starting the Conversation

Even if you decide not to homeschool, exploring the option can lead to valuable changes:

• You might discover ways to supplement your child’s education at home.
• Your family can develop stronger communication and decision-making skills.
• You’ll gain insight into your child’s learning needs and preferences.

Take Your Time

Considering homeschooling is a thoughtful process that requires careful reflection and research. Whether you ultimately choose to homeschool or not, exploring the idea can help you make informed decisions about your child’s education.

Remember, there’s no one “right” way to educate your child. What matters most is finding an approach that works for your family’s unique needs and values.